Mummy I Need You!!

For the past almost 1 month, Nisa refuse to be in school (nursery). At first, we thought that because she purposely did not want to be in school because of limitation of toys & favorite cartoons or maybe she try to be temptation on us as soon she’s going to have her own ‘adik’.

As she getting matured and her learning progress growth according to her age, she able to tell or report on her daily life and what’s she hates or likes. Apart of that, I realize that she also having her own imaginary friend which is not stick to the same person name. It will change according to her mood or game.

Last night, I was shock whenever she’s acting weirdly as she try to avoid someone that try to hit at her. As she scream to that imaginary person “Pergila… jgn kacau Echa.. Echa nak makan” (Go away; don’t disturb me as I'm having my dinner). At first, I’m just ignoring her as I thought she’s playing with her imaginary friend. But on second scream “Jangan la pukul Echa…” (Don’t hit at me…) as she tried to swing her hand (acting like defending herself). Then I ask at her, “Echa cakap ngan saper, saper pukul Echa?”(Who are you talking to? Who tries to hit at you?) As she reply me “Achicha kacau Echa… dia pukul Echa kat sini”(Achicha disturb me… she hits me over here) And I asked my mom in law, who is Achicha? My MIL said its one of girls that older than Nisa and love to disturb/hit everybody at school.

As today I’m sending her to nursery, again she’s crying and informs me a few names that love to hit/disturb her at school and also said that she’s did not want to be at school. I’m starting to understand her and fill pity on her but at the same time I feel lost. I still don’t know what to do to help her. Yes we do have a plan to move out Nisa to new nursery near to our house but the plan is going to be happen after June whenever I confirm to move back to my HQ office. I call my hubby at Kuantan this morning since I could not help myself thinking about Nisa. As I told my hubby and we agreed to get Nisa to move to new nursery earlier. I hope this is a good decision and makes my baby happy.